No… I’m sorry, but NO.
If my husband woke up one morning and was a woman… That would be the end of our relationship. No ands, ifs or buts. Although yes, he might still be the same person that I fell in love with - the fact that he is no longer a man, and I am in no way, shape or form a lesbian…yeah… it wouldn’t work. If this makes me “transphobic” so be it.
…that doesn’t make you transphobic, it makes you superficial and shows you don’t understand love at all. Real love, it is beyond sex/gender.