if u ever worry about your future as a wlw please know that my mother who just turned 40 and her girlfriend who started transitioning at 39 (who are both divorced and had children w/other ppl) are currently singing duets in our kitchen while my stepmum plays acoustic guiter and they’re beautiful and happy and there is always hope for you
my mom, who was married to my terrible father for 14 years, didn’t come out until she was 41
she met the love of her life at 55
my moms have been together for 8 years
and they are SO happy and adorable
so please don’t ever give up hope